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生活中的5个球
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7 {: o6 e* t5 y' W3 }$ X& G可口可乐总裁 Brian G. Dyson
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6 C" w V( M( @# d p& n/ c设想生活是一场游戏,你正试图把玩5个抛向空中的球。这5个球是工作、家庭、健康、朋友、心灵。
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你很快就会明白,工作是一个橡皮球。如果,不小心掉下,它还会弹回来。但其他四个球—家庭、健康、朋友和心灵却是玻璃做成的。如果,你不小心,掉下其中的任何一个,它们就会不可弥补地被刻上斑痕、留下缺口、被损坏、甚至破碎。它们绝不会完好如初。' o( ~* Q0 ~; F3 _9 S
' ?2 f4 _/ ]6 P) Q! h, y你必须明白这一点,从而努力平衡你的生活。7 F6 p3 p+ V5 {+ v# g" C6 ]8 h- q
3 q3 W' U1 t, D$ S4 q8 E6 }) c# R怎样才能做好?
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( K6 r% u5 H# P5 V1. 不要总是跟别人去比而低估你自己的价值。人与人是不同的,每个人都有自己的特色。
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9 Q0 j1 t% r) A* F2. 不要基于别人的择重去设定你的目标,只有你自己才知道什么最适合你。3 B6 o' m8 B+ |
" b* H* n% Y1 |3. 不要忽视那些最贴近你心坎的人和物。一生中,尽可能黏恋它们。没有这些,生活将毫无意义。
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4. 即不要生活在过去,也不要生活为未来。过好每一天,你便会过好你今生的全部。8 H# C! ]( Q2 O1 U' g
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5. 不要轻言放弃,当你还可以给予、尝试。事情只终结于当你放弃的那一刻。
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u! o2 d7 O' t! S6. 不要害怕承认自己不够完美。正是这根纤弱的丝线将我们绑在一起。! n" a8 c6 b/ r* X
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7. 不要害怕遭遇危险。正是这些机遇,让我们学会勇敢。
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2 i4 Q$ h9 n8 H) R _- _8. 不要轻言爱情无法寻到而关上心扉。得到爱的最快途径是给予;失去爱的最快途径是拥握太紧;而拥有爱的最好办法是给爱装上翅膀。+ e: j& _) | {0 i" Q# T, D
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9. 不要仓促你的人生,以至于你不但全然忘记去过那里,更不知今后所望。
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10. 不要忘记,人类情感最需要的是欣赏、感激。
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11. 不要害怕学习。知识是一种无重的、可以轻易携带的珍宝。2 p$ \4 A l6 J" x7 p: n
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12. 不要轻易的浪费时间,也不要口无遮掩 。两者都无可挽回。8 h7 K' W t% y% e# y- F' Q
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# F0 f+ ^3 p, E, Q6 t' T* s原文:
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9 n7 b7 Q; r/ y" [0 eFive Balls Of Life
1 x z5 |5 }4 bThis was written by the CEO of Coca-Cola Brian G. Dyson." X2 h( v& N* G
It was used as Georgia Tech\'s Commencement Address:
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) ?; t' l/ E5 Y( T. r6 { BImagine life as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.
4 \2 R9 u2 o! c4 B2 sYou name them - Work - Family - Health - Friends - Spirit, and you\'re keeping all of these in the air.9 {! E1 e6 U7 \. U9 E% A
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You will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back. But the other four balls -- family, health, friends and spirit are made of glass. If you drop one of these, they will be irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked, damaged or even shattered.
" H; P9 `) h: j& }- |They will never be the same. You must understand that and strive for balance in your life. How?
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1. Don\'t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. It is because we are different that each of us is special.9 B; Q" `2 ]$ @- t z
5 v$ @- W! m/ L0 |0 }2. Don\'t set your goals by what other people deem important. Only you know what is best for you.
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3. Don\'t take for granted the things closest to your heart. Cling to them as you would your life, for without them, life is meaningless.
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1 `" Z$ s+ F5 k! A, u2 {4. Don\'t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. By living your life one day at a time, you live ALL the days of your life.
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) m6 f5 L( W3 O# A( w% O5. Don\'t give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
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/ a0 ` H: J0 X0 u. L6. Don\'t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us together.
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7. Don\'t be afraid to encounter risks It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.
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8. Don\'t shut love out of your life by saying it\'s impossible to find. The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly; and the best way to keep love is to give it wings.
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9. Don\'t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you\'ve been, but also where you are going.: i& q7 l% ]& R- ]+ D$ _
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10. Don\'t forget that a person\'s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.
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( ?$ V! Q% B* t7 @5 R6 _* F8 n11. Don\'t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless, a treasure you can always carry easily.* l9 U* X T5 B# U; }$ B
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12. Don\'t use time or words carelessly. Neither can be retrieved.: b# p U! }. v- X0 g/ C
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