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生活中的5个球; ?+ g4 Q5 [/ i" g5 \* x$ Q
& L) M0 D F! J" R! B* k可口可乐总裁 Brian G. Dyson
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设想生活是一场游戏,你正试图把玩5个抛向空中的球。这5个球是工作、家庭、健康、朋友、心灵。
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& |% C2 Z0 k; i9 k) o. i, s& W A你很快就会明白,工作是一个橡皮球。如果,不小心掉下,它还会弹回来。但其他四个球—家庭、健康、朋友和心灵却是玻璃做成的。如果,你不小心,掉下其中的任何一个,它们就会不可弥补地被刻上斑痕、留下缺口、被损坏、甚至破碎。它们绝不会完好如初。0 u9 D9 g* F* H: k0 _# P: F
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你必须明白这一点,从而努力平衡你的生活。
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怎样才能做好?6 }) J; R6 {; \- P
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1. 不要总是跟别人去比而低估你自己的价值。人与人是不同的,每个人都有自己的特色。
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2. 不要基于别人的择重去设定你的目标,只有你自己才知道什么最适合你。
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3. 不要忽视那些最贴近你心坎的人和物。一生中,尽可能黏恋它们。没有这些,生活将毫无意义。
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4. 即不要生活在过去,也不要生活为未来。过好每一天,你便会过好你今生的全部。
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5. 不要轻言放弃,当你还可以给予、尝试。事情只终结于当你放弃的那一刻。# ]% q2 O2 e4 `% y/ f" r/ d9 j
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6. 不要害怕承认自己不够完美。正是这根纤弱的丝线将我们绑在一起。
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7. 不要害怕遭遇危险。正是这些机遇,让我们学会勇敢。 6 e$ z& q: U* u3 ?. G8 [8 E
3 G" [8 c1 i7 L$ {# W: k7 n8. 不要轻言爱情无法寻到而关上心扉。得到爱的最快途径是给予;失去爱的最快途径是拥握太紧;而拥有爱的最好办法是给爱装上翅膀。
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9 b' l, C5 R3 }7 p9. 不要仓促你的人生,以至于你不但全然忘记去过那里,更不知今后所望。
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- H4 _. P( r0 y10. 不要忘记,人类情感最需要的是欣赏、感激。6 i5 N! _+ N7 ]. r3 p' Y
; ]$ g5 t( c5 a5 v11. 不要害怕学习。知识是一种无重的、可以轻易携带的珍宝。
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8 N( Y) Z( G2 x1 h8 O0 Y& T12. 不要轻易的浪费时间,也不要口无遮掩 。两者都无可挽回。
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原文:5 T+ j8 ?! H" N" B* d- N+ E
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Five Balls Of Life* j7 K3 M0 M4 |4 u+ e# h# n7 J# L- L
This was written by the CEO of Coca-Cola Brian G. Dyson.; E; W4 _" C& f& u j7 W& H
It was used as Georgia Tech\'s Commencement Address:1 t. A/ M, q* ~( b
' K4 [1 E: u! ^# H/ p. l \Imagine life as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.
$ |7 u2 N; {+ e2 |% S) p1 K1 D9 TYou name them - Work - Family - Health - Friends - Spirit, and you\'re keeping all of these in the air.& p5 I4 E) b- t- z1 N; |, l
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- U2 ]9 U0 B' @& ^5 h- ^; dYou will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back. But the other four balls -- family, health, friends and spirit are made of glass. If you drop one of these, they will be irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked, damaged or even shattered.
2 o' s' a: N/ y9 \: h5 j! o- \+ i& fThey will never be the same. You must understand that and strive for balance in your life. How?
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1. Don\'t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. It is because we are different that each of us is special.
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2. Don\'t set your goals by what other people deem important. Only you know what is best for you.
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3. Don\'t take for granted the things closest to your heart. Cling to them as you would your life, for without them, life is meaningless.
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+ o/ v! ]. ^5 ^# f- Q4. Don\'t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. By living your life one day at a time, you live ALL the days of your life.
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% I3 I+ z8 U) \5. Don\'t give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
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6. Don\'t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us together.
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7. Don\'t be afraid to encounter risks It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.
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8. Don\'t shut love out of your life by saying it\'s impossible to find. The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly; and the best way to keep love is to give it wings., o' }% P3 Y% N. L
, R7 s: g9 H- x+ V3 n' ]0 M# V. E9. Don\'t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you\'ve been, but also where you are going.
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6 Z# X* a/ h7 j6 t4 \; H* y10. Don\'t forget that a person\'s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.
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* Q) H. d4 ]. J$ H4 [11. Don\'t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless, a treasure you can always carry easily.9 R3 Y" M7 W) R# W) n* R
( E. e* [3 e+ v5 R* J12. Don\'t use time or words carelessly. Neither can be retrieved.$ ~. H* L. P/ i) [1 _. y
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