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生活中的5个球
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# E! N/ R o; U/ b. u# Q) N可口可乐总裁 Brian G. Dyson
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设想生活是一场游戏,你正试图把玩5个抛向空中的球。这5个球是工作、家庭、健康、朋友、心灵。. T, E$ P4 ]8 Z7 e4 i2 T4 W
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你很快就会明白,工作是一个橡皮球。如果,不小心掉下,它还会弹回来。但其他四个球—家庭、健康、朋友和心灵却是玻璃做成的。如果,你不小心,掉下其中的任何一个,它们就会不可弥补地被刻上斑痕、留下缺口、被损坏、甚至破碎。它们绝不会完好如初。
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你必须明白这一点,从而努力平衡你的生活。
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) z, f( e \. J( b N" W怎样才能做好?+ r3 M3 T# V- }) X
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1. 不要总是跟别人去比而低估你自己的价值。人与人是不同的,每个人都有自己的特色。
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2. 不要基于别人的择重去设定你的目标,只有你自己才知道什么最适合你。
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# S; W4 \! |$ F3. 不要忽视那些最贴近你心坎的人和物。一生中,尽可能黏恋它们。没有这些,生活将毫无意义。) ] j w. T& }0 H- ^. n T
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4. 即不要生活在过去,也不要生活为未来。过好每一天,你便会过好你今生的全部。! V* W2 j3 k0 D3 Q
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5. 不要轻言放弃,当你还可以给予、尝试。事情只终结于当你放弃的那一刻。8 k8 {0 ~# B+ W0 f/ |$ D# ^
8 I( n# C9 m: c* r7 r; G2 b) t6. 不要害怕承认自己不够完美。正是这根纤弱的丝线将我们绑在一起。0 V7 g: [* e% d. v( p# j, T! M
" e* q1 n! W) n6 v7. 不要害怕遭遇危险。正是这些机遇,让我们学会勇敢。 3 C7 A1 k, H2 ]+ A
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8. 不要轻言爱情无法寻到而关上心扉。得到爱的最快途径是给予;失去爱的最快途径是拥握太紧;而拥有爱的最好办法是给爱装上翅膀。
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9. 不要仓促你的人生,以至于你不但全然忘记去过那里,更不知今后所望。
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. {4 f1 B8 n! [2 I6 t10. 不要忘记,人类情感最需要的是欣赏、感激。
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11. 不要害怕学习。知识是一种无重的、可以轻易携带的珍宝。" ]: a, c5 q5 N$ }
# s7 ?; t9 i# i1 [+ G$ _12. 不要轻易的浪费时间,也不要口无遮掩 。两者都无可挽回。" w/ y1 e' B. z- U
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原文:7 Q8 V# F( F% P& l/ Q
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# r' f- u& h* X7 N% u( sThis was written by the CEO of Coca-Cola Brian G. Dyson.
8 f: J2 P# U+ M, T- SIt was used as Georgia Tech\'s Commencement Address:% ?" ]4 f: k, d5 ?
' Q; k5 s ?0 M% \+ p7 jImagine life as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.
2 d* a% ]' h4 u/ R+ e, Y0 xYou name them - Work - Family - Health - Friends - Spirit, and you\'re keeping all of these in the air.$ X/ y) U( t J5 U5 V
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You will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back. But the other four balls -- family, health, friends and spirit are made of glass. If you drop one of these, they will be irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked, damaged or even shattered.' s4 ?- N; A% W/ z* |
They will never be the same. You must understand that and strive for balance in your life. How?
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j: K$ |) M; C* @# J1 E# c- \" P- e1. Don\'t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. It is because we are different that each of us is special.
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2. Don\'t set your goals by what other people deem important. Only you know what is best for you.' M) e% Q `, F0 R
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3. Don\'t take for granted the things closest to your heart. Cling to them as you would your life, for without them, life is meaningless.
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4. Don\'t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. By living your life one day at a time, you live ALL the days of your life.
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5. Don\'t give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
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2 W4 E" _ H/ h, E6. Don\'t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us together.
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7. Don\'t be afraid to encounter risks It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.
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# Q; @) e8 a4 @( V& @2 V8. Don\'t shut love out of your life by saying it\'s impossible to find. The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly; and the best way to keep love is to give it wings.
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1 a- Z0 R) t; g$ D8 S9. Don\'t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you\'ve been, but also where you are going.
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10. Don\'t forget that a person\'s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.
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! H; U: u: x! f Z- H11. Don\'t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless, a treasure you can always carry easily.
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* E* ^4 ^8 P5 V12. Don\'t use time or words carelessly. Neither can be retrieved.) T' i4 A r6 Q+ z+ z. c7 K4 _
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